Forty Six Months and Counting

*The best thing in life is finding someone who knows all your mistakes and weaknesses and still finds you amazing…”

Sarah Alyssa Marie Labrador Lanuza ♥ Nomar Lising Adea

“There are still few who loves desperately.” I read this quote and I can say yes it’s true. :] I do not care if he’ll change over time cause it’s true that people change, we just have to learn to accept a changed person. I am doing this blog because I would not be able to him tomorrow to celebrate. It’s our 46th month together, I like counting the days, so it’s 1,380 days. Normally, we don’t go to expensive restaurants nor watch movies during this day. We just send SMS or call each other, we don’t even give each other expensive gifts, for 3 years he hasn’t given me a teddy bear. LOL We practice “it’s the thought that counts” his cabinet is filled of my countless letters and artworks I made.

My first gift was the 24 letters I written the day I came home when we got together and gave it to him on our first month. I made newsletter, several graphics, which until now I keep on doing, I made a song, I edited a video, I recorded a poem, wrote several verses, and these blogs about us.

*When I talked, I only talk about you – Damage, I’ll be loving you forever*

I cannot come up with any more words to say, very redundant. Maybe I can call this, one of the fans for the flame of our burning relationship. I can fill this blog with love quotes or excerpts……

*It takes someone very special to make you smile with tears in your eyes*

Oh yes he does.

*One day I’ll find someone  I can laugh with all day, share deepest secrets with, talk about everything and have the best time of my life, until then, I won’t settle for less*

I found him already.

*When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible. – Harry Burns*

Speechless. I am spending it right now.

I’ve learned that there are three stages of love; (1) Sex Drive, physical attraction – Yes, I think you need to be physically attracted to that someone; (2) Romantic Love – Ooh courtship, flowers and chocolates are several here; (3) Attachment Phase – this is the stage when there are fewer fireworks, well, that’s true. They say romance stays only for 36-48 months, this why you need to keep the fire burning.

According to Greek Philosophy, humans are created with two heads, four arms, four legs, and then split into half, then your quest is to find that somebody who is your better half. He/she is your soul mate, such a CLICHÉ, so much about this.

All I know is that I am happy. He knows what I feel. I feel lucky. I am thankful.

All I want to do today is to stay in love with him as I am today. Head over heels but not obsession.

*Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence*



“Upon reading those verses of love, I knew that I am experiencing one of the best love story written for a human being, to realize the love of your life at this age is a blessing. Now all I want to do is to keep the fire burning. A pint of annoyance I feel whenever he acts crazy is nothing the gallon of sweet and intimate moments with each other. ” – Sam Lanuza, May 09, 2010

I hope you find your one true love too. ♥

[I am so happy babe, Thank you for everything. I love you so much]


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